Episodes

Wednesday Oct 07, 2020
We Can't Make This Up
Wednesday Oct 07, 2020
Wednesday Oct 07, 2020
Makeup. A lot of us wear it! Becky has worn it for years, but with the pandemic upon us, she is wearing it less often. Kara, on the other hand, had almost never worn makeup until last February. Listen to a cis woman and a trans woman discuss their respective personal journeys with makeup.
Note: Kara would like you to know that she has improved significantly at eyeliner since recording this episode.

Wednesday Sep 09, 2020
We Just Like to Recommend Things - Part 2
Wednesday Sep 09, 2020
Wednesday Sep 09, 2020
That’s right, Kara and Becky are back at it again with another recommendations episode! Hear Becky drop some psychology knowledge as she explains why 2 personality tests are her favourites right now. Then get yourself some culture through the TV shows, books, and music we’re loving. Finally, both Kara and Becky independently decided to recommend self-care tips!
Things recommended in this episode:
- 16 Personalities Test
- The Four Tendencies Quiz by Gretchen Rubin
- TV shows: Good Girls, Younger, Love on the Spectrum
- Books: Of Human Bondage, Unacceptable, and The Story Graph website.
- Music: “WAP” by Cardi B feat. Megan Thee Stallion, “Levitating” by Dua Lipa feat. Madonna and Missy Elliott, Taylor Swift’s folklore
- Self-care: cook good meals and take time to exist without a to-do list
Kara has new book reviews website! https://kara.reviews/

Wednesday Aug 26, 2020
Keeping It 1000! (Livestream Recording)
Wednesday Aug 26, 2020
Wednesday Aug 26, 2020
We hit 1000 downloads back in July, and we did an Instagram Live to celebrate. This is that Live … only it’s not live any more, of course. Kara edited it. The audio quality is rougher than usual. Listen to Kara and Becky talk about a variety of subjects, from the origins of this podcast to their neighbours to a Holly Bourne book and more!

Wednesday Jul 29, 2020
Book Club - Part 2! Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
Wednesday Jul 29, 2020
Wednesday Jul 29, 2020
Kara and Becky continue their discussion of Come As You Are, by Emily Nagoski, which they began in the previous episode. In this episode, we get a little more personal. We discuss what we hope our friends and loved ones will take away from this book if they read it.

Wednesday Jul 15, 2020
Book Club! Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski (Part 1)
Wednesday Jul 15, 2020
Wednesday Jul 15, 2020
Kara gave Becky Come As You Are, by Emily Nagoski, for her birthday. This book is about sex, specifically female sexual response! Now Kara and Becky will talk about what each of them learned from the book, as well as how it relates to their own experiences and their understanding of sex and sexuality.
Also check out Kara’s review of Come As You Are.

Wednesday Jun 17, 2020
Not Your Basic Blogger
Wednesday Jun 17, 2020
Wednesday Jun 17, 2020
Kara interviews Becky about being a blogger. Becky talks about the origins of her blog, what it’s like being a blogger in Montréal versus Thunder Bay, and what she has learned in the three years that she has been blogging.

Wednesday Jun 03, 2020
2020, You're Too Extra
Wednesday Jun 03, 2020
Wednesday Jun 03, 2020
Surprise, Kara is transgender! But that’s not what this episode is about. Or is it? A lot is happening to us in 2020, both personally and globally from, you know, this whole pandemic. Becky and Kara talk about how they’re holding up, and what they are enjoying and not enjoying about the strange plot twist that has started off this new decade.
Mentioned in this episode: Oprah and Deepak Chopra’s Hope in Uncertain Times meditation series.
You can also read the episode transcript.

Tuesday Mar 24, 2020
We Just Like to Recommend Things
Tuesday Mar 24, 2020
Tuesday Mar 24, 2020
Recommendations: they’re the bread and butter of a lot of online content. But if you spend all your time recommending, do you ever actual check out those recommendations? This episode discusses the phenomenon of the modern recommendation in general before getting into some specific recommendations from your hosts!
Important Note: Since recording this episode, Ben has come out as transgender with new pronouns (she/her) and a new name (Kara). Please refer use this name and those pronouns when discussing this episode, and all past episodes, instead of her old name.
Books mentioned in the episode:
You can also read the episode transcript.

Monday Feb 24, 2020
Becky Likes Boys
Monday Feb 24, 2020
Monday Feb 24, 2020
The title says it all. Becky spills the tea about all her dates since she moved to Montréal. Ok, not really. She does, however, explain her approach to dating, and how that approach has changed since she moved. Poor, aromantic Ben does his best to sort out his confusion about when and how Becky likes a boy. Towards the end, we cover some questions asked by a listener friend!

Monday Feb 03, 2020
Making Lemonade Out of Lemons
Monday Feb 03, 2020
Monday Feb 03, 2020
Summertime can a lot of fun. It can also bring challenges, like broken elbows and finding new roommates. Ben and Becky talk about how we take setbacks and turn them into, if not good things, then all right things.
You can also read the episode transcript.